Is your child having a hard time in school with grades or bullies? Or perhaps your teenager is staying out past curfew. Are you frustrated and fed up with your kid not listening to you? If so, the parenting tips below may help you find common ground with your child!
What experts say is true– reading books to your child is very important. Children learn just about everything by reading, from colors and numbers, to shapes and letters. Experts believe that 30 minutes of book reading each night could have your child on the way to reading before they even reach kindergarten!
If you have multiple children, make sure you’re spending time with each of them separately, as well as in a group. Spending time with each child individually, helps you bond with them and gives them a sense of uniqueness. You want your children to know that you love them all equally and that they all deserve time with you.
Even though you may get tired of your mother’s advice, you should always listen to what she says. Remember that she has, at the very least, raised you so she does have some previous experience. Also know when it is time to tell your relatives to back off a little. Advice is welcome, commands shouldn’t be.
Do not let your children gang up on you. If you are a typical couple than once you reach three children they will already outnumber you and your spouse. One good technique to avoid this is to have confrontations with children one and one. This prevents the giggles from setting in and you are able to maintain your authority.
Invest in swaddling blankets for your babies. Swaddling replicates the feeling of security that a baby had in the womb. For a newborn, this may be one of the only ways that they will feel comfortable enough to sleep. You can search online for videos on techniques for a proper baby swaddling.
Never yell at your children. It is best to talk to them with a calm voice, no matter how bad they are being. The more upset you get, the more upset they will get and things will spiral out of control very quickly. Keep your calm as much as possible.
The internet can have a big influence on teenagers today. They can end up spending a lot of time on online social media and watching internet videos. It is important to regulate what your teen has access to, to ensure they are getting influenced by appropriate information. You should move the computer into a family area for more control. You will see a positive difference in your teen.
By using the above tips, you will create a more open flow of communication between you and your child. You will also learn how to more effectively use discipline with your child so he or she learns manners and respect. Remember, stay calm and evaluate each situation from your point of view and your child’s! Be the best parent you can be!